aloha!

Back from dead. Hello bloggy.

1. Mia and Lily are back. We live together off-campus now. Things are pretty good.
2. Ended the trial run with him. He is a loser. period.
3. Joe has an Asian gf. Surprise? (not me la)
4. Quite worried about internship opportunities in the summer, and what happens next after graduation? sigh
5. I need a BF!!! (Although I feel comfortable being single atm.)
6. Going to Puerto Rico for thanksgiving! whoopee!
7. I have 2 midterms tmr, spanish & finance, great....what am I doing here? -__-''''
8. Vitiligo under control. Praise & Thanks to Lord Jesus!!! I have faith I will be completely healed.
9. Needs to save more & spend less.

Spring 2010 has been an unforgettable ride, whether it was good or bad, I still have no answer to that. It is a time when I truly understand what innocence and naivety means. It is the period I traveled to San Francisco with only another guy. (Nothing happened/was supposed to happen) It is a very lonely time as I struggle to make new friends, and thus spent more time on the IBM laptop and the gym than anywhere else. I failed my exam-p. I had my first boyfriend, or maybe he should be discredited as my first bf. Things are complicated in such a way that at this moment, we are in a trial run relationship, and I have no idea how things will go when I come back in the fall. I feel like, maybe, with my type of personality that inclines towards the "comfortable to be alone" persona, I will probably not be able to sustain a relationship well. In fact, the bf has somewhat similar persona too as he is the only child in his family. I do think about how this relationship would work in the long run... will he fly over to be with me in Malaysia? will he click well with my family? or maybe, the nearer future,...will this relationship even last till the fall? or next spring? How are we going to let this be known naturally to others? How are we going to create memories together when he is really stingy, ok fine, Thrifty? I don't expect him to pamper me with presents, but I do want my BF being able to take me out for a simple dinner/lunch/movies/activities, rather than the library... What do I like about him? Is it because it is rare that a guy actually likes me? Is it because I just want to have my first BF? I used to find him attractive because he is a man of good faith, a guy that is awkwardly cute in his expressions, and the fact that he carries his nerdy water bottle everywhere he goes made he even cuter in a geeky sense. Lord, You know the way, please guide me, shower me with Your wisdom and vision, that I may gain maturity each day and carve out my path towards You. Whenever I see the chemistry between my brother and Amanda, I feel that we lack that level of communication, that level of mindset... Sigh...somehow, deep inside my heart, I feel contend that we are so far apart from each other, that the only way of communication is through MSN/FB, thus, I can avoid him sometimes and vice-versa. I need to search deep within me to know how I truly feel about him.

Heart broken

Life has been a bed of roses. Oh how I wish I could say that....

Year 2010 at St. John's has started off with both of my closest friends, Mia and Lily being away in Taiwan and China(and then to Japan) for the entire spring semester. There was a moment, maybe due to my forlorn life and longing for a partner, I thought I had feelings for Joseph. Sigh, somehow, I am in this broken-hearted/depressed moment because of another guy. His name is JB. Sigh, how I wish I didn't confess my sudden feelings for him. It is from that meek confession, that I turned out to liking him even deeper! I have only myself to blame, for thinking too much and causing that desperate and silly act which I now regret. I thought he likes me too. Honestly, I thought it was easy to make him like me but I guess not.

The final straw is his "yo, im late, gtg sleep" sentence which is not even a sentence! Who writes that to a girl especially after knowing that this girl has feelings for you!? Maybe it is his way to say "I'm not interested". Then again, why did you even invite me to a wedding of your father's friend as your date, which I turned down because the invite was too sudden and casual, and he didn't pursue the topic further either... I guess you were just bored and do not want to look bad being the one without a date, huh? What a jackass!

I thought you were perfect since you are a God-loving person. You go to cell groups, play for the church, a nice guy and has never had a gf before which means you are not a casual person. Maybe not. I don't know anymore. You made me promise that I will not run away from you. See, it is that kind of request that confuses me! I want you to actually like me, miss me, and think about me. Not talk to me only when you are sad/bored and has no more homework to do!

I guess this spells the start of the healing of my broken heart. I want to move on. At the same time, I don't want to. The silly person inside me is hoping that things will change, and you will like me and we will hang out more. If you ask me to go out, I am not sure what the answer will be. I want to say no, just to let you have a taste of what I am enduring. I want to say yes, because this could be the chance we can really know each other and create something out of nothing. Sigh, JB, I can't take another "yo" from you.